Thursday, March 23, 2006

Free will

Got into one more loop - I am a strong believer in God though not in rituals and rites associated with worship. What does freewill mean to me?

I am torn in two directions - when I think that everything is predetermined and I am only a tool in the hands of God why am I investing so much effort and trying to change aspects of me and my life - does free will exist for believers in God????????????????????????????

Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Relationships

'No one is perfect', 'Kutram parkil sutram illai'

Cycle of relationships - Get close to someone, know more about them, honeymoon period , know some more, disenchantment - then comes the million dollar question to withdraw or to pursue

When an issue disenchants a relationship with one individual how come we accept another person and ignore the issue with them ?

What is the unique factor with each relationship that makes us forgive, forget with one and break off from the other?